Sunday 17 December 2017
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“Verily I say unto you, Whosoever shall not receive the kingdom of God as a little child shall in no wise enter therein.” (Luke 18:17)

I used to believe I was a very patient person. I always bragged about it to myself, during my inner self talk. It used to be one of my most treasured attributes. Well, it used to be until I became not just a father but a dad.

I am a dad to two very astute and extremely agile young men, both of whom are toddlers. Ryan, the older of my two kids, was the first to be birthed five years ago, while Idara, his younger brother and partner in all mischiefs, is soon to be four. Together they form a formidable army against all forms authority, control, boundaries and rules in our home. In fact, they rule!

When I became their proud dad my reality struck me hard in the face. Those young men can really make the most patient person fret. They have a well taught up recipe that drives patience away from any living saint. It took me time to finally realize that their recipe was heavenly, God-sent and divine.

I realize that my perceived patience was built with a pack of cards on a very faulty foundation of self. But when my kids began to pull my strings, my pack of cards came crumbling down. I was in a dilemma until I buried self and realized that God was actually using my kids to draw my attention from self to Him. Now, my patience is so firmly rooted in God that it would take a hurricane to shake it.

This, doesn’t mean I don’t lose it anymore (I’m still human), instead I know where to tap the strength to maintain my patience even in the face great turmoil.

Parenting is not all about your call to train, teach and bring up your offspring but more so about you humbling yourself, and becoming teachable! And … Christ-like!

“Parenting is not just about your children but also about you!”
Its about learning and developing Godly character in your parenting journey. The mind of Christ!

Learning from your children is a vital part of your parenting responsibility.

# Parenting is a Divine Mandate.
# Parenting is the best legacy.
# Happy Parenting!

Efiok Udoh

Efiok William Udoh, the second son in a family of six siblings, is a Nigerian-born Russian-trained Medical Practitioner, who has been in Private Practice for over a decade. He is an aspiring writer, fluent in English, Russian, and Portuguese languages. He is an ardent reader, a die-hard romantic and optimist. He loves to cook, travel and spend time with his family playing, having crazy fun and creating awesome memories. He is married to the jaw-dropping beautiful ex-model, Bernice, the woman of his dreams, whom he met in December 2009. They have two kids and currently live in Lagos, Nigeria.

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